Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. — Leo Buscaglia
I believe the most important thing teachers can do to help students achieve is to let them know you care about them. Showing students you care about them helps create a positive, supportive relationship and helps build an environment where learning can flourish. As teachers we all have to admit that some children are easier to love than others. I found if I take the time to build a trusting and caring connection with all my students and especially my toughest students, the better they behave and the more they achieve. It is not always easy, but the rewards are great. The more I know about my students’ interests, talents and needs, the easier it is to prepare meaningful lessons and helps students feel the partnership of the learning experience.
Ways to Show You Care
1. Allow time for students to talk to you or write to you about problems that arise, things they are excited about, questions they have, etc. When I am not readily available to talk with a student, I have them write a note and place it in a special box.
2. Help students share what they want others to know about themselves through art and writing activities.
3. Spend one on one time with each student. I like to eat lunch in the classroom with each student 3-4 times each year. This is a great time to listen to your students and find out about their families, cultures, ideas, interests, feelings about school, etc.
4. Work with parents to show interest and concern for their children by inviting them to class, making phone calls and sending positive notes home. Keeping an open dialogue with parents helps us better understand and know the students.
5. Know your students academic levels through authentic assessment practices. Students are most successful when they have appropriately challenging lessons. One of the most important ways we show students we care is through differentiated teaching practices.